Monday, December 22, 2008

Preesent for you


Cattch your Christmas present!
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Paper. Beef, camel, mutton, game and chickens, they were
gone i made a calendar, as i always charles was vigorously
shaking cocktails and talking be so kind as to make it secure
after we leave project gutenberg literary archive foundation.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Re: Contact Form Email

Hi Adam,

Sorry about your crash.

Here's the download links again:

http://tinyurl.com/asp-download

Ken

444articles@gmail.com wrote:
Name: Adam Lukeman
Email: 444articles@gmail.com
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Message: Hello, I purchased your software, however my computer crashed. I am hoping you can provide me access to download it once again. Below is an email which was sent to me. Hopefully it verifies that I did purchase your software. I Thank you for you time, Adam Lukeman Hello Adam, This message is automatically removed, after we get your registration. This is made to avoid piracy. Here is your Registration Code : N942rD9rCTupgtVl-3oNTCTxlxN Name Registered : Adam Lukeman Email Registered : 444articles@gmail.com Please check the name and email you entered , it must be written exactly the same. Thanks. Click on The Setup button on the main screen paste it in : Unlock Code area (bottom left of the screen) and click on Save If you have any problems please let us know here: http://doubleheadpublishing.com/helpdesk Thanks again for your business Hubert & Ken http://doubleheadpublishing.com Creators of . . . http://articlesubmitterpro.com http://exitpopmonetizer.com http://nichemasterdirectory.com http://affiliatelinkwizard.com PS: Have you joined the affiliate program yet? http://doubleheadpublishing.com/idevaffiliate/signup.php PSS : Article Submitter Pro 2 is announced......... keep tuned ........... you\'ll be the first to know when its released PPSS: You can get some great Tips and Tricks on our blog at: http://articlesubmitterpro.com/blog And one final PS . . . To get your bonus for the year\'s worth of free hosting from Jumpline.com, go to: http://doubleheadpublishing.com/secret Login ID: free Password: hosting

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

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Monday, December 1, 2008

Re: You have not responded to my previous letter

Hello,

You have not responded to my previous letter sent two weeks ago by regular mail in which I expressed my grave concerns about an investment of a member of your family.

As you already know, I am the Information Analyst at the SNS Bank of Netherlands and presently in London, the United Kingdom on official assignments. I am contacting you via email because you have not responded to my previous letter and I do hope you will give this matter a priority attention it truly deserved.

I would respectfully request that you treat the contents of this mail as privileged and proprietary and respect the integrity of the information you come by as a result of this correspondence because am contacting you independently of our investigation and no one is informed of this communication. Hence, I would like to intimate you with certain facts that I believe would be of interest to you and mutually beneficial if pursued to its conclusion with the necessary speed and determination.

The bank is at the verge to closing an investment account of high value belonging apparently to your family member who reportedly died intestate five years ago leaving behind an estate/capital with interest of a substantial amount of money in a now bonded account at the SNS Bank of Netherlands and till date nobody has come forward or put application for the claim. In line with our internal processes for account holders who have passed away, we officially instituted our own investigations in good faith to determine who should have right to claim the estate. This investigation has for the past months been unfruitful. Hence, my official capacity dictates that I am the only party to supervise the investigation and just recently, it occurred to me that you and I could work on this matter and share the proceeds equally being that you both share the same last name which put you in the right position to be the only suitable apparent heir of the estate though you may not be biologically related to him.

However, to maintain some level of security/confidentiality, I have intentionally left out some privileged information and urge you to contact me today and let's discuss the modalities/logistics of realizing this goal.

In compliance with the standard requirements and to double-check with my record and ensure that you are indeed the addressee of this mail, I need you to reconfirming your details which include but not limited to your contact information, your full names (no initial please) and your age range, (Date of Birth) as prove of maturity to handle a project of this magnitude. I will provide you with all the privileged information/legal documents relating to the deceased customer and his bonded investment account when I receive your information and double-checked same satisfactorily. I will also guide you through the entire process of the transaction and ensure that the deal is consummated without the breach of the laws.

I am aware of the consequences of this proposal and humbly request that you discard this mail if you find no interest in this project. I ask that you should not be vindictive if you are not interested in taking this further. Please notify me and delete this message and forget I ever contacted you. Do not ruin my career by contacting the management of my bank simply because you are not interested in my proposal. You may not know this but people like me who have made tidy sums out of comparable situations run the whole private banking sector in the banking industry. I am not a criminal and neither will you be one by working with me on this deal. This may be hard for you to understand, but the dynamics of my industry dictates that I make this move. Opportunities like this seldom come and therefore I am committed to realizing this goal in spite of all odds. I need your courage and commitment to actualize this transaction and together we can make it happen.

I do expect your prompt response while I am still here in London and let's examine the possibility of a lasting business relationship.

Thank you for your time and attention.

Sincerely,
Georgette Fijneman
Director Program Management,
SNS Bank of Netherland

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Get The Girl Guide Update...

Hi Aron,

Just touching base with all of you to see how your "Get The Girl
Guide" campaigns are going. In the last 24 hours we have seen a
great take up on this offer, with a number of affiliates writing in
to me remarking about our great take rate on our upsell as well!

Don't forget, not only do you get commission on the sale of "Get
The Girl Guide," but you also get 70% commission on the OTO, which
in this case is "Conversation Chemistry."

It's a really easy way to give an extra boost to your campaign, and
from initial indications, some of my affiliates are doing great.

But it's not too late for everyone to get in on this, especially if
you have a few moments.

I have touched up the pre-written promotions, added the bonus
interviews to the review area, and have everything ready and
waiting.

Remember, if you are looking for points of scarcity to encourage
your leads to take this one up quickly, we have three points of
scarcity:

- The price! $29.95, which is a 20% discount for a limited time.

- The numbers! Offer is limited to the first 200 copies sold.

- Bonus audio interview! I have managed to secure a bonus interview
called "How to be Bulletproof With Babes" with The Player Society's
Clark Cassidy, which will be added as a bonus for the first 200
copies sold.

After that, im thinking about selling it separately as an
additional backend promotion. But if your leads are one of the first
200 to buy the "Get the Girl Guide" course, they get it fre.e.

UPDATE:
Now I have just heard from a number of affiliates that aweber have
been having a few teething issues the last couple of days, which
meant that a number of you had emails queued that didn't send.

With that in mind, I will hold the launch offer open a bit longer to
allow your leads to get the special launch pricing.

The site is live and selling at:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractwomen/

PLUS, don't forget, by promoting this course to your leads, you
also get commission on any Meet Your Sweet courses that they
purchase in the next 60 days. We have lots of courses for your
leads to choose from, so its even more reason to get promoting!

The affilate resource area is at:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/getthegirl.php

Articles, banners, images, hoplinks, everything you ever need to
promote this course is there for you to use. And as always, feel
free to email any questions to me.

Here's to your success,

Andrew

Affiliate Manager

SaveMyMarriageToday.com

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Monday, November 17, 2008

Get The Girl Guide Campaigns Ready?

Hi Aron,

The launch of "The Get The Girl Guide" is almost upon us.

The launch is scheduled for 4pm EST, on November 18.

The 215+ page ebook, two bonus books, and two bonus interviews are
ready for launch, so you should be making your final preparations
and queueing your emails.

It's going to be a big launch, and a great pre-christmas sell, so I
hope you are prepared!

You can set up your hoplinks to "The Get The Girl Guide" at:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/affiliate-resources.php#returned

And for any of you who may have missed my previous email, the
resources are all ready and waiting in the affiliate area:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/getthegirl.php

There are review copies of the course, bonuses, images, banners,
articles, and pre-written reviews all at your disposal.

The course launches November 18, now only a few hours away!

All the best!

Andrew
Affiliate Manager

SaveMyMarriageToday.com


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Friday, November 14, 2008

Building Up Your Google Pagerank...

Hey Aron,

In this edition of the Save My Marriage Today
Affiliates Newsletter series, we're going to look
at Google Pagerank, what it is, and how to build
it up.

Those little green pixels that appear in your
Google toolbar giving your website a ranking out
of ten. (If you haven't got a Google Toolbar you
can get one from Google.)

You'll see a lot of advice out there on how to
boost your pagerank, a lot of bragging from
high-pagerank sites and a lot of effort exerted
by low-pagerank sites to try to raise their sites
into these hallowed halls.

But does it actually matter in the long run?

First, let's take a basic look at what pagerank
actually is. Back in the dim, dark ages of 1998,
Google founders Sergey Brin and Larry Page
presented an article at the World Wide Web
Conference outlining a new way of analyzing
websites based on their link relationships. They
called this PageRank, and it is still at the basis
of all Google's web search tools.

The idea is this:

If I link to your site, that is like me making
a recommendation for your site. I'm saying your
site is good. The more people you have
recommending your website, the better your website
must be.

It's democracy in action -- so many people can't
be wrong! So the first rule of pagerank says that
the more recommendations you have, the higher your
pagerank. But that's far too easy.

Bring on rule number 2:

Rule 2 says that links from high pagerank sites
will contribute more to boosting your own pagerank
than links from relative nobodies.

Put it this way, who are you more likely to
trust: Someone with a proven good reputation and
association with other people of high repute, or
someone you've just met and don't know anything
about? That's a no-brainer, you'll trust the
first.

In a way a high pagerank is similar to a good
reputation.

If you've got a recommendation from someone
with a good reputation, then this is going to
reflect well on you too. You could get twenty
recommendations from sites with a low pagerank
(poor reputation), but they might not boost your
pagerank as much as just two recommendations from
high pagerank sites.

An additional aspect to this second rule is
that Google seems to make distinctions between
links that are earned and links that are bought or
traded. Earned links are links from authority
blogs and web communities, news coverage, Yellow
page listings, user reviews, and other organic
links.

Links are deemed NOT to be earned if they
come from distribution of articles and press
releases, link farms, reciprocal links and
listings on directories that exist solely for the
search engines -- ie, ones that humans don't
actually visit.

It seems that more PR is passed through earned
links than through the non-earned links. As an
analogy -- You're not great when you pay someone to
say you're great, or when you play "you scratch my
back, I'll scratch yours." You're more great when
someone randomly recognizes you on the street and runs
after you yelling "Dude, you're great!"

The third rule of pagerank states that the
benefit (the little boost to your pagerank) passed
on through a link is diluted if there are many
other links coming out from that page.

Imagine I have an excellent reputation, a nice
high pagerank, but I am very generous with my
recommendations. In fact I'm so nice, I'll
recommend anything -- all you need to do is ask and
you can join 10,000 other recommendations on my
website.

In this situation you're perhaps less likely to
trust my judgement, aren't you? You'll think I'm a
soft-touch. If I only had one recommendation on my
site then that site I'm recommending must be
pretty darn good, so it gets all the PR value I'm
able to pass on.

The fourth rule of pagerank states that a link
will only pass on the full wham of its pagerank
once it's been in place for a while. Links come
and go, you might be in favor one week and then
old news the next week, but links that have been
around for a long time indicate enduring value and
stronger relationships, so they're more valuable
and will help your pagerank more.

* Note: These "rules", as I put them, are
anything but. They're just assumptions based on
observations.

Taking all these things into consideration,
it's relatively easy to develop a strategy for
building your pagerank.

- Write articles and submit them to article
sites with the proviso that people using the
articles include your author's "resource box"
containing a link to your site. Be careful that
articles you submit are at least 25% different
from articles on your website. When a search
engine sees two identical sites, it will give the
most credit (pagerank, search engine ranking) to
the one it sees first -- that can be a bit of a
gamble.

- Become an authority on a subject, or
create a valuable site that people will naturally
recommend to others.

- Pay someone to find links for you.
Elancers (for instance) typically charge per hour
or per qualified link for this service.

- Submit to search directories.

- And so on, and so forth.

But the real question is: Does pagerank
actually do anything? Or do we just get in a big
flap about it because it's the most obvious thing
we can actually measure when it comes to SEO?

While Google are adamant that Pagerank still
forms the basis for all their web search tools,
it's a smaller piece of the picture than many
people realize.

It's important to remember that your aim is to
have your website rise in the search engine
listings for your particular keywords. Got that?
Tattoo it on your forehead in reverse script so
you see it when you look in the mirror.

Then go back to your elementary SEO and you'll
see that to help your website rise in the rankings
you need to do the following things:

- Ensure you're building relevant link
relationships with appropriate sites

- Ensure that people linking to your site are
using appropriate keywords in their link text

- Ensure that your site is suitably optimized
for your keywords

So where does PR fit into this? PR is largely a
reflection of the first task on that list. When
you have a high PR it means you have some good
links coming your way.

If they're the right kind of links then they
(and your PR) might help you in your search engine
rankings, but it's just one part of the picture.

Google has many other considerations when it
figures out your ranking, and you shouldn't focus
on your Pagerank at the expense of these other
things.

Where PR is useful is as leverage for building
new link relationships. People will be much more
willing to swap links with a PR6 site than a PR1
site, because that will benefit their PR as well.

Since they value your association, your link
partners will also be more willing to do as you
ask, for example: link using certain text, or link
from certain pages. So a high PR can turn into
high search engine rankings, but indirectly.

It helps you to get good links from good sites.
If you're just about collecting the little green
pixels and you don't pay attention to the quality
and relevancy of these links, however, they're not
going to help you VERY much.

And at end of the day, you don't really need PR
for getting good links either. Particularly if
you're very charming, or your site is particularly
good.

If you're providing an excellent resource, or
you have a service, gimmick, tool or widget that
people love, you're going to find yourself
attracting links and building that PR regardless.

The main point I'm trying to make is that PR is
only one piece in a much more complicated picture,
and it's certainly not the be all and end all for
your search engine rankings.

Testament to this fact is that it's by no means
uncommon to see sites with low PR beating high PR
sites in the search engines. What is important is
that you take a whole-picture approach to your
search engine optimization, and view PR as simply
a reflection of the strength of the links to your
site.

If you focus on the rest of your SEO
strategy, then your PR should fall nicely into
place as well.

I hope that you enjoyed and gained value from
this newsletter,

Till next time,

Andrew
SaveMyMarriageToday.com


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Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Get The Girl Guide Hoplinks and Presell Ready Now...

Hi Aron,

The hoplink generator in the Meet Your Sweet affiliate resources
page has been updated to include the new "The Get The Girl Guide"
course, so you can get started on your presell!

The launch of this course is now only a week away, so now is a
great time to let your lists know and build up some anticipation.

The launch blog is going really well, and a few hours ago the
second of two fre.e special reports was added to the blog.

They are:

- "The Science of Attraction"

- "Are You Creeping Women Out?"

These reports are 46 and 36 pages long, and are a great read and
enticement for your leads, so if your leads aren't visiting the
blog already, you need to send them there.

You can use your affiliate link from our hoplink generator to send
them there, as the "Get the Girl Guide" index page currently
redirects to the launch blog. That way your leads get the free
reports and your cookies are set.

Special reports and blog are at:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractwomen/blog

But you should send leads through your hoplink, which you can now
set up at:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/affiliate-resources.php#returned

And for any of you who may have missed my previous email, the
resources are all ready and waiting in the affiliate area:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/getthegirl.php

There are review copies of the course, bonuses, images, banners,
articles, and pre-written reviews all at your disposal.

The course launches November 18, now less than a week away!

Hoplink generators are all through the affiliate resource area, and
they will easily set you up with your affiliate hoplink.

Review copies, bonuses, hoplinks, banners, everything is ready for
you. Start your presell sequence now!

All the best!

Andrew
Affiliate Manager

SaveMyMarriageToday.com


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Friday, November 7, 2008

How to Get More Backlinks to Your Affiliate Website...

Hi Aron,

Here's a really useful tool for getting a whole
lot of backlinks to your website.

Now, there are quite a few products and
programs out there that will automatically submit
your site to a whole bunch of directories for a
reasonably low price. The problem with using these
is that a lot of directories frown upon or just
plain disallow automatic submissions like this.

Even though you submit to 500 directories, you
might find that relatively few of these
submissions actually get accepted. For the large
part, directories tend to prefer manual
submissions, but for anyone who has ever sat down
and tried manually submitting to a whole bunch of
directories -- you'll know it's a super tedious
process.

Enter Directory Submitter!

Here is a video by Mark Ling from
Affilorama.com showing you what it is and how it
works, and you can view it here:

http://www.affilorama.com/blog/resources/dsgold/

Apologies for the sound quality, but you should
still be able to understand what's going on.

Basically, this isn't an automatic submission
tool. We'll say that right off the bat. This is
souped-up manual submission. Manual submission
made faster and easier. It's good.

How does it work?

Once you've downloaded the software from
www.affilorama.com/recommends/directorysubmitter
(and the free version of Directory Submitter is
just that... free!) you simply start a new project
for your website (or whatever page you want listed
in the directories) and then fill in some details.

These details are what will be automatically
filled in when you come to submission pages, so
it's the standard stuff like contact email, user
name, password, address, etc.

Then you move on to the next step where you
fill in the stuff that actually appears in the
directory. Enter titles for your listing,
descriptions and keywords. Where Directory
Submitter gets really useful is that it allows you
to enter a number of different options for this
step.

You might have five different titles you want
to submit to directories under. You might have
different sets of keywords you want to use, or
different descriptions.

Directory Submitter allows you to enter a
number of options, and then "rotate" these and use
a different combination of titles/description for
each directory. This makes it look less obvious to
the search engines that you've used some kind of
submission program.

Once you've got this all filled out, it's
simply a case of double-clicking on a directory
listed in the software. The submission form will
be automatically filled out, but you'll probably
have to choose a category for your website. Once
everything is all sorted, just hit "submit" and
that's one directory done!

Directory Submitter will keep track of when you
submitted to the site, so you can go back and
check on it later.

You can order directories by page rank, or by
Alexa ranking, depending on your motivations for
getting in the directories.

The free version of Directory Submitter
(www.affilorama.com/recommends/directorysubmitter )
is well worth downloading and trying. It comes
pre-programmed with about 350 free directories you
can submit to. There is a "Gold" version of the
software which has over 2000 directories listed in
it (and more being added regularly) and is pretty
cheap for the benefit it gives.

I've got my staff using it and I've noticed
that it's been helping our traffic quite a bit,
and other people I've seen use it have reported
similar things: Increased traffic both from
directory traffic, and from the boost the links
give to your search engine rankings.

I hope that this newsletter has been helpful to
you.

Best of luck with your Save My Marriage Today
campain!

Regards,

Andrew
SaveMyMarriageToday.com

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Get The Girl Guide Review Copies, Banners, articles available...

Hi Aron,

Just a quick heads up before the weekend, there have been more
resources added to the "The Get The Girl Guide" affiliates area, so
you need to pop in and check it out.

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/getthegirl.php

There are review copies of the course, bonuses, images, banners,
articles, and pre-written reviews all at your disposal.

The course launches November 18, note the change of date as we
decided to add an extra interview in at the last minute, so plenty
of time to get your campaigns up and running.


QUICK FACTS AGAIN:

* It's a dating and relationships course for men seeking women
* It's produced by Meet Your Sweet, sister company to
000Relationships
* It offers a 70% commission through Clickbank
* It launches November 18
* Affiliate resources are available at:
http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/getthegirl.php
* Website is http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractwomen, currently
redirecting to the launch blog

LAUNCH BLOG:

I have already set up the launch blog and run a competition, and
going by the volume and style of comments, it's going to be a good
little earner. Check out the pre-launch blog at:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractwomen/blog

ADDITIONAL INCENTIVE

The other exciting thing is that we will have an OTO on
the back of this product, and you will get commission for that
product as well.

That means you will not only get commission for The Get The Girl
Guide, but you will also get commission on the OTO.

Additionally, any other Meet Your Sweet products that are bought
within 60 days of your referral will get you further commission.
This is your chance to get a slice of the action. We have a number
of high-profile names helping promote this launch, so it's going to
be a big one.

We are using clickbank.com as our affiliate program provider, so
setting up this campaign is really easy.

Review copies, banners, everything is ready for you. Get promoting
and get ready for launch day November 18!
All the best!

Andrew
Affiliate Manager

SaveMyMarriageToday.com


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Friday, October 31, 2008

How to Build An Effective Website!

>>I have gone to a lot of trouble to build a
comprehensive affiliate resource area, all to help
you maximize your returns on promoting my product.

Check it out and get your images, reviews, hoplinks,
and pre-written articles at:

www.savemymarriagetoday.com/affiliates.php

Hi guys,

I'm writing this newsletter because I've had a
lot of people asking me how to go about building
their own website.

As an affiliate you can definitely earn
commissions without your own website, but if you
are really serious about earning piles of long
term cash from this business, then you'll want to
have your own website or websites.

The problem is that a lot of people feel that
it is too complicated to create their own website.
Learning how to use software such as Dreamweaver,
or Frontpage can be daunting.

The good news is that there is another software
program out there that is designed specifically
for internet marketers which is simpler and easier
for you to use.

Now this isn't an email promotion. I am not
including an affiliate link in this email and
don't earn any commissions by giving you this
recommendation. I'm mentioning it here because I
believe that it is the easiest to use software for
setting up your own website.

There are more bangs and whistles in
dreamweaver and once you get comfortable, you may
wish to progress to that. But XSitePro,
www.xsitepro.com, has all that you need to put
together a simple website that includes articles,
and promotes affiliate products.

You'll find that this software makes it much
easier for you to keep your website up to date in
future, and it'll save you a lot of time that
often gets spent by Dreamweaver and Frontpage
users.

It has quite a lot of nifty wee features such
as helping you do your search engine optimization,
uploading and quite a lot more.

Anyway, this email isn't meant to be a sales
pitch for xsitepro, this www.xsitepro.com link is
NOT an affiliate link and I don't earn any money
from you clicking on it and buying XSitePro.

My purpose in creating this email is to help
you get off your butt and set up your own website
and start promoting Save My Marriage Today. One of the
highest paying, highest converting products on the
internet, now paying a staggering 75% commission.

I trust that you enjoyed this email.

Helping you to maximize your affiliate success!

Andrew
SaveMyMarriageToday.com

P.S. Check out more great products you can promote by
going to:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/

http://www.000relationships.com/affiliates.php

For more great courses and opportunities to ramp up
your affiliate sales!

SaveMyMarriageToday.com
Level 2
107 Cashel St
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Wednesday, October 29, 2008

News: Share a Slice of The Get The Girl Guide launch...

Hi Aron,

I hope you are really starting to see some great results with your
Save My Marriage Today campaign. This course is really pumping at
the moment, so now has never been a better time to promote us!

However, smart affiliates are always looking to add to their
campaign revenue.

Thats where a number of you may be interested in a new course soon
to be released by Meet Your Sweet, sister company to Save My
Marriage Today.

The course is called "The Get the Girl Guide."

QUICK FACTS:

* It's a dating and relationships course for men seeking women
* It's produced by Meet Your Sweet, sister company to
Save My Marriage Today
* It offers a 70% commission through Clickbank
* It launches November 11
* Affiliate resources are available at:
http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/getthegirl.php
* Website is http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractwomen

LAUNCH BLOG:

I have already set up the launch blog and run a competition, and
going by the volume and style of comments, it's going to be a good
little earner. Check out the pre-launch blog at:

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/attractwomen/blog

ADDITIONAL INCENTIVE

The other exciting thing is that we will have an OTO on
the back of this product, and you will get commission for that
product as well.

That means you will not only get commission for The Get The Girl
Guide, but you will also get commission on the OTO.

Additionally, any other Meet Your Sweet products that are bought
within 60 days of your referral will get you further commission.

This is your chance to get in on our latest launch. We have a number
of high-profile names helping promote this course, so it's going to
be a big one.

We are using clickbank.com as our affiliate program provider, so
setting up this campaign is really easy.

I'm working on building the affilate area, which is still under
construction, but it should be ready within a few days. I will be
in touch when the affiliate resource center is online.

If you want a review copy of this course before you promote it,
email me back and I will arrange it.

All the best!

Andrew
Affiliate Manager

SaveMyMarriageToday.com


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Friday, October 24, 2008

Setting Yourself Apart (and Ahead) Of Other Affiliates...

Hi Aron,

I'm writing this email in response to questions
from people who are wondering, how can they set
themselves apart from other affiliates?

Especially when you consider that often there
are multiple people promoting the same products!

The first thing I want to mention to you is
that in a lot of ways other affiliates actually
help you.

It is far easier to sell a product that has
many favourable reviews on the internet than it is
to sell a product that has no other mentioning
from anywhere else online.

That said, sometimes you'll lose commissions
when someone clicks your affiliate link, then 5
minutes later clicks on someone else's and then
purchases.

Some people look at it as though it all evens
out in the end, and to some degree it does. Others
look at it from the perspective that
Save My Marriage Today pays out 75% commissions (that's
pretty huge), so a 10% loss in commissions isn't
too bad so long as they are still earning lots of
money.

But I can tell you, the best way to look at it
is that you really need to take some
responsibility in helping SELL people on making
the purchase.

If you can create a landing page where people
are really keen on purchasing one of our products
right after reading your review or recommendation,
then you won't have to worry about them clicking
on another affiliate link 8 days later then
purchasing.

Also, if you go ahead and build a list, then
you'll have more opportunities to make the sale.
If you do this, you'll be building a MUCH stronger
relationship with your prospects than MOST other
affiliates do.

One of the biggest secrets of top affiliates is
to include your own bonus that you offer to people
who purchase through your link. This may be a bit
complicated for many of you, and if you can't,
don't worry. Our top 3 affiliates make over 15
sales a day of our products without doing this.
But you'll get more people bookmarking your page
to make sure they buy through your link if you do
adopt this strategy.

I hope that you've enjoyed this newsletter and
if you haven't already, I hope that you get out
there and TAKE ACTION and start promoting
Save My Marriage Today.

http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/affiliates.php

All the best!

Andrew
SaveMyMarriageToday.com

P.S. Meet Your Sweet's range of courses are also
currently converting really well, so this is your
opportunity to get a slice of the action!

http://www.meetyoursweet.com/affiliates/


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Friday, October 17, 2008

Article Alley - Article Writing Service

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The way in which the article copywriting service works here at Article Alley is that we will write a 500 to 800 word article based on your chosen topic. One main advantage of using our writing service is that we can turn our writing skills to any subject area with ease whilst making sure that all of our articles are informative and persuasive to the reader. Our experienced writers know exactly what is required in order to promote your business or service and will produce your articles using either American or British English.

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Thursday, October 16, 2008

Why You Should Be Using Email Marketing

Hi Aron,

If you check out the articles and pre-written
emails in the affiliates area, you will find there
are a number for you to play with.

In addition to that, however, you might want to
write some of your own newsletters in order to keep
in regular contact with your prospects.

If you don't have a dating newsletter, but you
do have a dating website, then you may be
interested in signing up to aweber.com and using
that software to run your own newsletter series.

I've seen affiliates double their sales and
more simply by following up with their prospects
via a regular newsletter series. Even if all you
do is send an email once a week it makes the world
of difference (aweber allows you to queue these
emails up so that they get sent out
automatically).

Yes, we at Save My Marriage Today have our own
newsletter sequence, and if you send visitors to
our website and these visitors sign up to our
newsletter, you WILL get credit for sales that are
made, up to 60 days after they visit our website.

But if you create your own list, you'll be able
to make sales of more than just our product, you
can promote us for the first 30 days, then the
next month you may wish to promote another dating
or relationships product.

The opportunities with email marketing are
endless. Just make sure that you put together
quality content. Don't forget you can use the
content that is available to you inside the
Save My Marriage Today affiliates area.

That is available for you to use in any way that
you please, so long as you are using it to promote
Save My Marriage Today. You may wish to use this content
as newsletters, and even on your own website.

Check it out and keep working hard. Our top
affiliates are making around 10-15 sales a day, so
there is no reason why you can't make a good
amount of money promoting the best marriage advice website
on the internet.

We're here to help as always!

Your friend,

Andrew
SaveMyMarriageToday.com

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Friday, October 10, 2008

Listen to these PPC secrets right now...

Hi Aron,

As a valued savemymarriage today affiliate, I thought that you
would find this teleseminar download very valuable to you.

Mark Ling recorded this with a super affiliate who is earning
2.4 mil a year. You can download it right now from:

http://www.affilorama.com/blog

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Enjoy!

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Thursday, October 9, 2008

My Take On How Google Works

Hi Aron,

As you're probably aware, Google drives a huge
proportion of the search traffic on the internet.

What this means for you is that if you can
understand Google, then if you were to build a
website (as an affiliate), then you'll stand a
much better chance of ranking highly on the
specific search terms that you're targeting (e.g.
"attract men", "attract single men", "conversation
tips for meeting single men", and so on).

In this newsletter, I'm going to provide for
you a no-nonsense, but yet comprehensive guide to
how Google works. If you want to rank highly in
Google, then you'll want to print out, read and
use a highlighter pen while going through this
newsletter.

Now I'm not including Search Engine
Optimization strategy per-se, I'm explaining how
Google works first, then in my next email, I'll
give you a strategy to implement that goes with
this email on How Google Works. Read on...

Google has a comprehensive and highly developed
technology, a straightforward interface and a
wide-ranging array of search tools which enable
the users to easily access a variety of
information online.

Google users can browse the web and find
information in various languages, retrieve maps,
stock quotes and read news, search for a long lost
friend using the phonebook listings available on
Google for all of US cities and basically surf the
3 billion odd web pages on the internet!

Google boasts of having world's largest archive
of Usenet messages, dating all the way back to
1981. Google's technology can be accessed from
any conventional desktop PC as well as from
various wireless platforms such as WAP and i-mode
phones, handheld devices and other such Internet
equipped gadgets.

The web search technology offered by Google is
often the technology of choice of the world's
leading portals and websites. It has also
benefited the advertisers with its unique
advertising program that does not hamper the web
surfing experience of its users but still brings
revenues to the advertisers.

GOOGLE'S WEB SEARCH TECHNOLOGY

When you search for a particular keyword or a
phrase, most of the search engines return a list
of page in order of the number of times the
keyword or phrase appears on the website. Google
web search technology involves the use of its
indigenously designed PageRank Technology and
hypertext-matching analysis which makes several
instantaneous calculations undertaken without any
human intervention. Google's structural design
also expands simultaneously as the internet
expands.

PAGERANK TECHNOLOGY

PageRank technology involves the use of an
equation which comprises of millions of variables
and terms and determines a factual measurement of
the significance of web pages and is calculated by
solving an equation of 500 million variables and
more than 3 billion terms.

Unlike some other search engines, Google does
not calculate links but utilizes the extensive
link structure of the web as an organizational
tool. When the link to a Page, lets say Page B is
clicked from a Page A, then that click is
attributed as a vote towards Page B on behalf of
Page A.

Quintessentially, Google calculates the
importance of a page by the number of such 'votes'
it receives. Not only that, Google also assesses
the importance of the pages that are involved in
the voting process.

Consequently, pages that are themselves ahead
in ranking and are important in that way also help
to make other pages important.

One thing to note here is that Google's
technology does not involve human intervention in
anyway and uses the inherent intelligence of the
internet and its resources to determine the
ranking and importance of any page.

Hypertext-Matching Analysis:

Unlike its conventional counterparts, Google is
a search engine which is hypertext-based. This
means that it analyzes all the content on each web
page and factors in fonts, subdivisions, and the
exact positions of all terms on the page.

Not only that, Google also evaluates the
content of its nearest web pages. This policy of
not disregarding any subject matter pays off in
the end and enables Google to return results that
are closest to user queries.

QUERY HANDLING -THE GOOGLE WAY

Google has a very simple 3-step procedure in
handling a query submitted in its search box.

1. When the query is submitted and the enter
key is pressed, the web server sends the query to
the index servers. Index server is exactly what
its name suggests; it consists of an index much
like the index of a book which displays where is
the particular page containing the queried term is
located in the entire book.

2. After this, the query proceeds to the doc
servers, and these servers actually retrieve the
stored documents. Page descriptions or "snippets"
are then generated to suitably describe each
search result.

3. These results are then returned to the user
in less than a second!

THE GOOGLE DANCE

Approximately once a month, Google update their
index by recalculating the Pageranks of each of
the web pages that they have crawled. The period
during the update is known as the Google dance.

Because of the nature of PageRank, the
calculations need to be performed about 40 times
and, because the index is so large, the
calculations take several days to complete.

During this period, the search results
fluctuate; sometimes minute-by minute. It is
because of these fluctuations that the term,
Google Dance, was coined. The dance usually takes
place sometime during the last third of each
month.

Google has two other servers that can be used
for searching. The search results on them also
change during the monthly update and they are part
of the Google dance.

For the rest of the month, fluctuations
sometimes occur in the search results, but they
should not be confused with the actual dance. They
are due to Google's fresh crawl and to what is
known "Everflux".

Google has two other searchable servers apart
from www.google.com. They are www2.google.com and
www3.google.com. Most of the time, the results on
all 3 servers are the same, but during the dance,
they are different.

For most of the dance, the rankings that can be
seen on www2 and www3 are the new rankings that
will transfer to www when the dance is over. Even
though the calculations are done about 40 times,
the final rankings can be seen from very early on.
This is because, during the first few iterations,
the calculated figures merge to being close to
their final figures.

You can see this with the Pagerank Calculator
by checking the Data box and performing some
calculations. After the first few iterations the
search results on www2 and www3 may still change,
but only slightly.

During the dance, the results from www2 and
www3 will sometimes show on the www server, but
only briefly. Also, new results on www2 and www3
can disappear for short periods. At the end of the
dance, the results on www will match those on www2
and www3.

This Google Dance Tool allows you to check your
rankings on www, www2 and www3 and on all 9
datacenters simultaneously.

How to maximize Google's Search Features?

FIND IT ASAP

The Google Web Directory works in combination
of the Google Search Technology and the Netscape
Open Directory Project which makes it possible to
search the Internet organized by topic.

Google displays the pages in order of the rank
given to it using the PageRank Technology. It not
only searches the titles and descriptions of the
websites, but searches the entire content of sites
within a category, which ultimately delivers a
comprehensive search to the users.

Google also has a fully functional web
directory which categorizes all the searches in
order.

IN CASE YOU ARE FEELING LUCKY

The I'm Feeling Lucky(TM) search button is
recommended when searching for a highest ranked
web page for a particular search. This saves time
in searching for a webpage.

The multi-faceted Google Toolbar

The Google Toolbar(TM) can seamlessly integrate
with a user's web browser and be of quick
assistance.

Pandora's Box

- Google enables its users to search for U.S.
street maps immediately by just typing the street
name in the query box.

- Latest stock quotes are just a click away.
Just type in the company ticker symbol or the name
of one of the stock indices stock and mutual fund
information and Google will return the relevant
information in association with high-profile
financial and trading concerns.

CACHE ME IF YOU CAN

Google takes a snapshot of each page it
examined as it crawls the web and stores or caches
them as a back-up in case the original page is
unavailable.

This cached link always displays the page in
the same manner as it was indexed and this is used
by Google to match the relevancy of the page to
the query submitted by the user.

The "Cached" link will be missing for sites
that have not been indexed, as well as for sites
whose owners have requested Google not to cache
their content.

Google Web Search Features

Google offers a variety of special features
which helps users to find exactly what they are
looking which is all in addition to providing easy
access to more than 3 billion web pages. The
following is an overview of its key features:

- Calculator

Google has a built-in calculator function which
can be used to calculate mathematical expressions
involving basic arithmetic, more complicated math,
units of measure and conversions, physical
constants and even hexadecimal and binary
numbering systems. You can simply enter the
expression you'd like evaluated in the search box
and hit the Enter key or click the Google Search
button.

- Dictionary Definitions

When searching about any particular term, if
the Google database has a definition or meaning
for the term, then it will be highlighted with an
underline on the results page. This definition is
derived in association with a reliable dictionary
source.

- File Types

In addition to HTML files, Google search also
supports 12 other formats such as PDF, Microsoft
Office, PostScript, Corel WordPerfect, Lotus
1-2-3, and others. Additionally, Google also
offers the user the ability to "View as HTML",
which allows users to view these files in case the
corresponding software is not installed on the
user's PC. It also eliminates the hazards of
opening a virus-infected document.

- News Headlines

While searching for a particular term, if that
term is also in any of the current news, it is
displayed as a separate news link on the results
page. This is derived from various news providers
who work in association with Google and who let
Google monitor them.

A new offering - Advanced News Search

A new offering from Google - Advanced News
Search, allows visitors to scour headlines by
date, location, exact phrases or publication.
People can use it retrieve articles from more than
4,500 news outlets publishing on the Web. Advanced
News Search lets visitors search for headlines
using several parameters. Among other features,
people can locate stories that contain an exact
phrase, within the Unites States or abroad, or
written by a specific publisher.

- Similar Pages

The results page also displays a link for
'similar pages' which uses the GoogleScout
technology to explore the web for similar pages.
This is particularly helpful if you have hit upon
a page which has relevant content, but you want
something similar but more.

- Web Page Translation

This feature is particularly helpful if your
search has non-English results. Google offers a
facility to automatically translate a page for you
in English. Currently, Google supports Italian,
French, Spanish, German, and Portuguese languages.

- SafeSearch Filtering

Google provides a SafeSearch option to filter
pornographic contents from its results page. This
is especially useful for shared computers which
need to be protected for children surfing the
Internet. Google's technology tries to check
keywords and phrases, URLs and Open Directory
categories and eliminate these from the search
results.

SUBMITTING YOUR URL TO GOOGLE

Google is primarily a fully-automatic search
engine with no human-intervention involved in the
search process. It utilizes robots known as
'spiders' to crawl the web on a regular basis for
new updates and new websites to be included in the
Google Index.

This robot software follows hyperlinks from
site to site. Google does not require that you
should submit your URL to its database for
inclusion in the index, as it is anyway done
automatically by the 'spiders'. However, manual
submission of URL can be done by going to the
Google website and clicking the related link.

One important thing here is that Google does
not accept payment of any sort for site submission
or improving page rank of your website. Also,
submitting your site through the Google website
does not guarantee listing in the index.

CLOAKING

Sometimes, a webmaster might program the server
in such a way that it returns different content to
Google than it returns to regular users, which is
often done to misrepresent search engine rankings.

This process is referred to as cloaking as it
conceals the actual website and returns distorted
webpages to search engines crawling the site. This
can mislead users about what they'll find when
they click on a search result. Google highly
disapproves of any such practice and might place a
ban on the website which is found guilty of
cloaking.

GOOGLE GUIDELINES

Here are some of the important tips and tricks
that can be employed while dealing with Google.

DO'S

- A website should have crystal clear hierarchy
and links and should preferably be easy to
navigate.

- A site map is required to help the users go
around your site and in case the site map has more
than 100 links, then it is advisable to break it
into several pages to avoid clutter.

- Come up with essential and precise keywords
and make sure that your website features relevant
and informative content.

- The Google crawler will not recognize text
hidden in the images, so when describing important
names, keywords or links; stick with plain text.

- The TITLE and ALT tags should be descriptive
and accurate and the website should have no broken
links or incorrect HTML.

- Dynamic pages (the URL consisting of a '?'
character) should be kept to a minimum as not
every search engine spider is able to crawl them.

- The robots.txt file on your web server should
be current and should not block the Googlebot
crawler. This file tells crawlers which
directories can or cannot be crawled.

DON'TS

- When making a site, do not cheat your users,
i.e. those people who will surf your website. Do
not provide them with irrelevant content or
present them with any fraudulent schemes.

- Avoid tricks or link schemes designed to
increase your site's ranking.

- Do not employ hidden texts or hidden links.

- Google frowns upon websites using cloaking
technique. Hence, it is advisable to avoid that.

- Automated queries should not be sent to
Google.

- Avoid stuffing pages with irrelevant words
and content. Also don't create multiple pages,
subdomains, or domains with significantly
duplicate content.

- Avoid "doorway" pages created just for search
engines or other "cookie cutter" approaches such
as affiliate programs with hardly any original
content.

I hope that you've learnt and gained a lot from
this newsletter on How Google Works.

In the next newsletter we'll look at a great
strategy for getting high search engine rankings.

Regards,

Andrew
SaveMyMarriageToday


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Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Dr. Shoshanna's Newsletter - It's A New Day

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Its' A New Day With Dr Shoshanna October 2008
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How To Be Calm, Balanced And Positive
-- Discover The Positive Truth About Life's Challenges
-- What's New? Jewish Dharma (A Guide to the Practice of Judaism and Zen)
-- What's Going On! News! Dr. Shoshanna's Radio Show: It's A New Day With Dr Shoshanna
-- Dr Shoshanna's Schedule
-- A New Way To Feed The Hungry: Project Oatmeal
-- Question and Answer
-- Why Men Leave
-- Save Your Relationship (21 Basic Laws of Successful Relationships)
-- The Anger Diet (30 Days to Stress Free Living)

We are excited to let you know that we are re-naming our newsletter to It's A New Day With Dr Shoshanna.

Dr Shoshanna has just received her own radio show, which will start airing on October 15th, with the same name, It's A New Day With Dr. Shoshanna. (More about it in the newsletter).

This newsletter is dedicated to those who wish to learn the simple laws of love, how to practice them in all their relationships. Combining Eastern and Western teachings and practices, it will also offer psychological, spiritual and practical wisdom on handling all kinds of upset constructively so that everyday can be a truly new day for you.


Discover The Positive Truth About Life's Challenges
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When rough times come, each of us has an intuition of the best way to handle the stress we feel. Rather than listen to all the catastrophic predictions, we stop and first turn within for wisdom and guidance. Implicitly we are asking, is there a way of seeing things differently? And, of course, there always is.

Rather than respond automatically, we are stopping for a moment and discovering a way of looking at the world through fresh eyes. As we do this, not only do we calm down, but often discover unexpected resources we never thought we had. We do not try to analyze, or explain what is going on. Rather than try to control our experience, we learn to make friends with it, let it instruct us and be our guide.

Take a deep breath. Put down fantasies, hopes, expectations for a moment. Just simply learn to be where you are. Sit still without moving, and take in all that is going on now. Don't judge it, hate it, push it away. Be with everything, just as it is. Including yourself.

Here are some more steps in the process that will put the situation in its widest perspective.

Pointer 1 - Stop Looking For A Quick Fix

A great danger in our lives is looking for a quick fix, believing there are all kinds of wise ones around who have the answers for our lives. That is not helpful right now.

As we say in Zen, "Don't put a head on your head. What's wrong with your own, anyway?"

This is the time to develop patience, and to learn to live with things as they are. Find the good in everything that happens. Look and see what you are learning from this, how this situation is helping you grow.

Pointer 2 - Give Up Unnecessary Pressure

Most of the time we create all kinds of demands on ourselves and others. We measure our progress, compare ourselves to others, judge ourselves relentlessly. Let's stop all this for a minute. Now, just focus upon each breath, each day, each moment and experience it totally. One complete moment brings the next. When we are totally focused and mindful of where we are now, we are not lost in dreams, expectations and anguish. The path is made by walking.

Pointer 3 - Get In Touch With All You Are Receiving

Instead of focusing upon what you have lost or are losing, get in touch with all you are receiving, moment by moment, day by day. Write it down. Acknowledge it. Spend some time giving thanks. Give thanks personally, write a note, make a call. Fill your consciousness with appreciation and gratitude.

Pointer 4 - Become Aware of All You Have to Give Others

Rather than focus upon your losses, focus upon what you have to give, what others may need from you and how you can be of help. When you think of someone, take a moment to ask within, "how may I serve you?"

When you spend time trying to help another, not only will you get in touch with your own inner strength and resources, but the very act of helping, you calm down as well.

Pointer 5- Go Back To The Beginning

Many are constantly seeking more and more, always exploring new territories, ideas, relationships. However, many rush forward without really knowing where they are going. Once they arrive, they quickly set a new destination and start rushing to it again. This is a good time to realize the value of less, of letting go of that which is unnecessary, simplifying your life.

Our way is to return to the beginning. Stop, sit down, look within. Set a new destination for your life, one that involves a larger purpose. Remember where you came from, who you are, why you are and where we are all ultimately headed.

Separate what you need from what you desire. Desires can keep us whirling in circles. Needs can usually be easily met. With this in mind a larger view of life will emerge. This larger view will support you, through all the temporary ups and downs. It will also help you remember to take care of yourself and others along the way. You will receive great satisfaction from doing so.

(This article is based upon Jewish Dharma (A Guide to the Practice of Judaism and Zen), by Dr Shoshanna, http://www.jewishdarma.com

Jewish Dharma (A Guide to the Practice of Judaism and Zen)


What's New? Jewish Dharma (A Guide to the Practice of Judaism and Zen)
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Jewish Dharma We are thrilled to announce the publication of the latest book by Dr. Shoshanna, Jewish Dharma (A Guide to The Practice of Judaism and Zen), and the ways in which they can heal your life. Jewish Dharma is the first guide to the authentic parctice of both Judaism and Zen. We see how each practice enriches, illuminates and challenges the other and how they provide keys to the personal struggles we face each day.

Each chapter deals with different life issues, such as loneliness, relationships, conflict, finding peace and understanding and ways of healing suffering. The book includes personal narraitive, parables, quotations, discussion and specific exercises so the reader can integrate the material into their lives.

A Jewish heart is warm, giving, devoted to family and friends; a Zen eye is fresh, direct, spontaneous and in the moment. These practices are like two wings of a bird; both are needed to be able to fly.

Endorsements

"...Brenda Shoshanna is creating a unique path. I highly recommend this book to anyone who has a foot in more than one world." Rodger Kamenetz, author, The Jew in The Lotus and History of Last Night's Dream

Dr Brenda Shoshanna flies on two wings: A deep love of the Jewish faith and her Zen practice of 36 years. Her vision embraces both traditions with fidelity and beauty." Robert Kennedy, S.J. Roshi, author of Zen Gifts to Christians and Zen Spirit, Christian Spirit

"/..Anyone interested in finding deeper understanding and meaningful purpose in life will be rewarded by reading any one of Jewish Dharma's pages." Lama Surya Das, author of Awakening the Buddha Within and founder of Dzogchen Meditation Centers.

"I couldn't put Jewish Dharma down. ..a must read for anyone who wishes to explore Zen meditation and Jewish life." Rabbi Marcia Prager, author of the Path of Blessing

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tree of life We are thrilled to announce Dr. Shoshanna 's new radio show which starts on October 15th and will be recorded live

Wednesdays 2-3 p.m

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Dr Shoshanna's Schedule
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Watering Can Dr Shoshanna will be giving

Reading and signing of Jewish Dharma

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on Thursday night, October 16, 2008.

267 7 Avenue

7 p.m.

Workshop on Jewish Dharma

92 St. Y, in Tribecca

Wednesday, October 29th.

200 Hudson Street, NY

For details, contact Dr. Shoshanna at topspeaker@yahoo.com

Dr. Shoshanna is a psychologist, author and speaker - her work integrates East and West in finding psychological, spiritual and practical guidance in making our lives all they can become.

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Save Your Relationship (21 Basic Laws of Successful Relationships

From Anger to Peace of Mind (The Anger Diet)

Jewish Dharma (A Guide to the Practice of Judaism and Zen)

Relationships as Spiritual Practice (A New Look at Love)

Making Peace: Forgiveness and Reconciliation

Jewish and Zen Ways of Healing Suffering

The Perfect Person: Who Are They?

Dr. Shoshanna's programs are available as talks, half day workshops, full day , or week-end workshops.Contact us for more information. topspeaker@yahoo.com

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Project Oatmeal Your life will flourish when it is filled with gratitude and giving. As we take time to be aware of and give thanks for the many blessings we receive our days are filled and joyful.

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Question and Answer
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Pink flamingo I have been searching and searching for the right mate and no one seems to fit the bill. After things start out well, I begin to see differences between us and obstacles. What to do?

We all dream of finding the "perfect person", someone who will fulfill our dreams and images and with whom we will be constantly happy. However, this is a fantasy which causes a great deal of the sorrow and pain we experience in relationships.

People have many aspects to them, some fit with you and others do not. This is natural and inevitable. Sometimes you will be happy with a partner and other times obstacles will naturally arise. This does not mean the person is not a suitable partner. In order to create a fulfilling relationship, you must not view your partner as an object who exists to make you happy, but as someone to share your life journey with. The partner is there to help you grow, to learn what love is. They are there to teach you kindness, acceptance and how to give.

Rather than look for the perfect person, become the person you are looking for. Focus upon your own growth, warmth, kindness and generosity. As you grow in love, you will naturally attract the right person to you, learn how to deal with obstacles and build a relationship that is healthy and fulfilling.


Why Men Leave
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Why Men Leave After a relationship ends, whether it's a twenty-year marriage, or a promising romance that becomes disappointing, women ask what went wrong over and over again. Usually they blame themselves, feeling that it they had done something different things wouldn't have turned out as they did. A great deal of the pain and upset is due to the fact that they don't really understand what happened, what caused the man to go.

In this revealing, intimate book, I ask the men themselves and they provide some startling and enlightening answers. Drawing on hundreds of interviews, I present men's own words and perspectives about the various reasons their relationships fell apart. You'll be surprised and relieved to hear what they have to say. Usually the reason men leave, has nothing to do with you. Some of the topics covered in the book include, The Fear of Committment, Ghosts of Past Relationships, The Mid-Life Crisis, The Repetition Compulsion, Competition With In-Laws, The Fantasy Woman, and many others.

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Save Your Relationship (21 Basic Laws of Successful Relationships)
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Save Your Relationship Discover the surprising truths about love that can save your relationship and make it all you want it to be. Even a wonderful relationship can become difficult when we don't know the basic laws of love and how to apply them in our everyday lives.

Probably the biggest need all of us have is to experience a wonderful, loving relationship where we can be ourselves, and share our lives with someone meaningful. This is exactly what you will be able to create when you begin to work with the unique program inside my e-book, Save Your Relationship.

In the program you will discover the common mistakes people make in relationships and how to turn them around. You'll see why it's impossible to fail at love, once you understand how to build a foundation that can weather any storm.

Why not throw away old relationship habits and start new right now?

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GIVE A GIFT

Give a session with Dr. Shoshanna in person or on the phone, or invite Dr. Shoshanna to talk or offer a workshop in your community. She speaks on many topics including:

Save Your Relationship (21 Basic Laws of Successful Relationships

From Anger to Peace of Mind (The Anger Diet)

Everyone Wins Mediation: "How To Get from I to We

Journey Through Illness , Loss and Change

- Dr. Shoshanna's programs are available as talks, half day workshops, full day , or week-end workshops.Contact us for more information. topspeaker@yahoo.com

Or, perhaps you'd like to give someone you care for a copy of one of Dr. Shoshanna's books such as Zen and The Art of Falling In Love, filled with delightful stories,guidelines and steppingstones to love, based on Zen practice.

Get a copy of Save Your Relationship today.


The Anger Diet (30 Days to Stress Free Living)
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The Anger Diet Melt Away Toxic Feelings With The Anger Diet

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This is a diet that releases stress, lets you sleep soundly at night, reduces cravings and brings new friends into your life. This diet gets rid of the number one toxin that destroys well-being - anger.

In Dr. Shoshanna book, The Anger Diet, you'll learn about the 24 forms of anger, the lies anger tells you, and how to stop it fast with the Emergency Technique. Each day you'll give up a different form of anger and replace it with a life changing antidote. The life changing effects of this diet will appear soon after starting.

There's no need to keep going the way you have been. Choose to feel good today. Get a copy of The Anger Diet and see how easy it is to say no to upset.

The greatest obstacle we have to feeling good, healthy and loving is anger which accosts us in many ways and camouflages itself.

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